All Attractive Women Are Like That
by David Alexander on Jun.08, 2011, under Mental Clutter, Women
Over at Alte’s place, I made the following comment in regards to what I’ve learned from her site:
As I’ve noted before, while it’s a positive to see that these religious women enjoy sex and have avoided some of the questionable tendencies of other women, the disillusionment comes when one discovers that they too need alpha males in order to induce their sexual activity. There are no real beta loving women out there and that being religious doesn’t magically make a woman love betas. For all intents and purposes, they’re just less sexually active versions of the other women out there.
Coincidentally, later on today, I stumbled upon Dalrock’s entry about how the concept of marrying a friend doesn’t work. He also notes the problem of women marrying for status, then dumping the men once they become repulsed by them. As once can hint from the comments above, I was one of those guys that was labouring under the idea that a relationship based on friendship would work. The idea was buffeted by what some would call media indoctrination, but from a romantic perspective, who couldn’t be against the idea of marrying your best friend and raising children together? To somebody that doesn’t know any better, it certainly sounds like a recipe to fight against divorce, but in retrospect, a lot of failed marriages seem to have operated under this theory. The ultimate problem is that eventually she may find somebody that’s she’s really attracted to later on, and that’s when she’ll begin to cheat on you.
As some have noted, due to “laws of hypergamy”, women are only attracted to men that are above them, and that for a good marriage to work, the woman has to be head over heels in love with the male. Of course, we’re left with a quirk where most women are incapable of ever really being that attracted to males. My overall problem with the PUA/MRA sphere is that it exposed me to the idea that women are only attracted to alpha males, but the downside is that traditionalist women like Alte and other religious women like Haley seem to be on the alpha bandwagon as well. But in conclusion with Dalrock’s entry, you’re left wondering about where a beta male can go if he’s incapable of making a woman fall head over heels in love him. Game can only do so much, and eventually, it’s not sustainable as even Alte had to redirect her marriage to keep it from dying, so one seems to be left with the conclusion that a lot of people are simply going to be lonely. Too many men are unattractive for most women to have anything resembling a satisfying marriage with little chance for divorce. Even if we go back to shaming women that divorce men or implicitly forcing women to marry by restricting their options, we’re still stuck with the depressing fact about women which just makes any entanglement with women to be a highly questionable affair for most men. Either be an alpha with all the women, or be a beta that lucks out with female company in the form of some platonic friends, otherwise, hope that she doesn’t act like a total bitch during the divorce.
June 22nd, 2011 on 8:13 pm
“My overall problem with the PUA/MRA sphere is that it exposed me to the idea that women are only attracted to alpha males, but the downside is that traditionalist women like Alte and other religious women like Haley seem to be on the alpha bandwagon as well.”
I’ve criticized them briefly. I don’t agree with PUA’s or MRA’ — alcestiseshtemoa.wordpress.com/2011/04/26/my-problem-with-mras-and-gamers-aka-puas/
I see Alte as leaning towards traditional conservatism but ditto about Haley. Haley said once how virginity isn’t important or should be promoted. That’s heretical and unbiblical in orthodox Christianity.
June 22nd, 2011 on 8:25 pm
Traditional conservatives are different from MRA’s and PUA’s so I caution for you to place them in the same bin. An individual today will only reject the benefits of feminism if they reject the philosophy of liberalism.
Posts on Game — http://www.amnation.com/vfr/archives/014099.html
Reader rejecting the manosphere — http://grerp.blogspot.com/2011/05/letter-from-reader-re-manosphere.html
June 26th, 2011 on 11:19 am
David Alexander’s nightmare: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qq1InX6509M&feature=player_embedded